I guess I was tired of me being single. Tired of having all my friends get married; of me being the third wheel every time I hung out with them. I just could not take another failed relationship. I had actually grown up and was considering replying to a matrimonial ad sent by father back in India. I guess I was tired of trying to find love on my own. Tired of surfing dating sites and dating incompatible women. So 2 failed engagements and 3 stalkers later, I finally was man enough to ask for help, or was I?
My cousin was actualy the one planted the seed that made me realise I needed help. She had just lost her father and she initiallty broke down. She was just 23, but was bold enough to ask the family to help in finding a boy for her. I opposed the idea at first. but since she was the only daughter, and I am the only son, we were similar. I began to think; I actually looked at what made her take the decision to reach out to family, and it made sense.
So I was deciding to reply to the ad, but was that the right thing to do?
Was me asking my parents and family to help in finding me a bride, a good decisions?
These were the questions I had to answer
In his search of love the the blogger struggles between the decision of an arranged marriage or to persue true love. The views expressed herein are the personal views of the author and are not a reflection of the views of any other person. Any resemblance to a real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.
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Friday, December 10, 2010
Friday, November 12, 2010
The first advertisment reply
dear madam,
further to your advertisment in the examiner and the telephonic conversation we had on in the evening hours I am pleased to give you my sons details:
son's name: #####################
his date of birth: xxxx
his qualifications: b.com management studies, mumbai university, pgdbm in advertising & public relations, kc college mumbai, diploma in advanced computing art(CDAC), mumbai university, computing accounting,mumbai.
experience:after having worked in india for two years after graduation as an event coordinator and public relations executive and as a creative services consultant he migrated to the usa in may 2003 and has been there ever since. he is currently processing his papers for his green card and after two years will be applying for his american citizenship.he has been working in the usa as the director youth affairs and public relations with the all nations christian ministries in el monte, california. presently he is working on an assignment in kentucky and will be there till may 2007.
other details: both my wife and myself are practicing roman catholics and so ziren has been brought up in the roman catholic teachings and is also a practicing catholic.
i am in business and have my own event management company. my wife is in the usa and is helping out in the church activities. he is the only child.
if you are interested in taking this matter further i would be obliged if you could send me your daughters resume, and telephonically confirm the same to me as i do not have an internet connection at home, so that i could forward the same to my son
thanking you,
yours sincerely,
further to your advertisment in the examiner and the telephonic conversation we had on in the evening hours I am pleased to give you my sons details:
son's name: #####################
his date of birth: xxxx
his qualifications: b.com management studies, mumbai university, pgdbm in advertising & public relations, kc college mumbai, diploma in advanced computing art(CDAC), mumbai university, computing accounting,mumbai.
experience:after having worked in india for two years after graduation as an event coordinator and public relations executive and as a creative services consultant he migrated to the usa in may 2003 and has been there ever since. he is currently processing his papers for his green card and after two years will be applying for his american citizenship.he has been working in the usa as the director youth affairs and public relations with the all nations christian ministries in el monte, california. presently he is working on an assignment in kentucky and will be there till may 2007.
other details: both my wife and myself are practicing roman catholics and so ziren has been brought up in the roman catholic teachings and is also a practicing catholic.
i am in business and have my own event management company. my wife is in the usa and is helping out in the church activities. he is the only child.
if you are interested in taking this matter further i would be obliged if you could send me your daughters resume, and telephonically confirm the same to me as i do not have an internet connection at home, so that i could forward the same to my son
thanking you,
yours sincerely,
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